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You know, men ask me questions about " finding a girlfriend " and "how to relate to a woman " and similar topics frequently .

But the correctness of the matter for all of these sort of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better advice than good old "experience".

But needless to say the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to meet women?

You meet women, approach women, and observe women any way you can for as long as it takes to get comfortable with the topic. Then when you are comfortable you date women, date women, date women. It is called serial dating.

And when I published my first book, "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year", some people thought I was nuts.

First of all, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between meaningful relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.

And I am not talking about guys who multiple or serial date their entire lives. Obviously those people have some major relationship problems.

However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and continual interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.

Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?

They said: "Don't get really serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯

Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.

Most of us adults never actually followed good old mom and dad's advice. We instead met someone we kind of liked and connected with them and ignored the rest.

Sort of like, we got together with the first acceptable person who showed some real interest in us.

Unfortunately, there is a significant difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also the fact is that most people usually continue this routine of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.

We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the end it leads to depression in relationships, and a failure to comprehend the opposite sex.

Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us.

Most of us didn't even understand our own nature and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.

But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.

And lo and behold, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and about and got a lot of experience.

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